How do you handle a situation where a client may want to get "wild and crazy"?
Define wild and crazy.
You can have an energy with a person where you both comfortably push each others' boundaries without saying a word, and it is a mutual consent - that's sexy.
You can have someone who just wants to make a nuisance of themselves, and they can walk through this magic rectangular portal called a door.
Do you like being an escort? What do you enjoy most in it? What is important and have value for you in it?
I enjoy meeting new people; I have my own business, and I enjoy my second life. There is a thrill to this.
What don't you like about being an escort?
How do you prefer a client to make an appointment? What information is important for you? Is screening required before the appointment?
CALL ME. Not maybe, just call me.
For incalls I need you to call me from a mobile and give me your name, and a time you would like to meet me. I'll probably chat a little to you, because that's the kind of person I am, and if you're pretty clinical, we won't get on.
For outcalls, I need your full name, hotel and room number. I'll also call you in your hotel room an hour before I arrive.
You need to confirm pre-booked appointments with me on the morning of appointment otherwise I will assume you have cancelled.
Do you have any particular requirements regarding hygiene? What are the guidelines that your client should follow?
I always offer a shower when you first come in - you may have showered already - but I like clients to be clean. The cleaner you are, the nicer you smell, the dirtier I will get.
What payment options are available? How would you prefer the client to pay?
How would you prefer the money to be given?
Cash, within the first 10 mins. You can put it in an envelope if you prefer.
If a client decided to make you a present, what would you be happy to receive? What is your wish-list (maybe flowers, lingerie, perfume, music albums, books etc.)?
Presents are incredibly sweet as per my first answer. I will screech like a girl.
Mac make up
Any kind of book voucher (I read a lot of Kindle books, so being able to download them is easier than buying me physical books)
I also love lingerie, and if you would love to see me in something - you can always buy it and I'll model it just for you.
Do you travel? If so, what does that involve on the client's part?
I tour, if that's what you mean. If you would like to see me come to your area - please drop me an email and I'll look into it.
Do you allow kisses?
Of course I do, its so clinical otherwise.
I am a non smoker though, which is probably the only time I will pull back.
Do you have girlfriends you play with ?
I don't offer duos.
Do you allow the clients to take photos or video? If yes, on what terms?
No, and I will ask you to leave immediately.
How do you handle first-timers or those who have limited experience with escort services? What are your suggestions to such clients to make your encounter the most enjoyable?
Nervousness is normal; shyness is actually kind of cute. I've met clients - grown men - who have been trembling when they've met me. They've been with women, but this experience is new to them, and they don't know what to do.
Be honest that's how you feel - I have to think about my safety, and I don't know if you're behaving like that because of something else. A good escort will be kind to you and understand that you might need your hand held a little bit!
Follow her lead. This is what she does, she will let you know what feels comfortable and doesn't.
And let yourself enjoy the moment - its meant to be a fantasy, so lose yourself in it.
Have you ever had experiences with disabled clients? How do you meet their special needs?
I think this is a case by case situation, and in my experience, its easier to speak to the individual client and come to a mutual agreement on what works best for them.
What is your attitude towards tobacco, alcohol and drugs? Do you drink or smoke yourself? Do you allow the client to do it during your meeting?
I do drink socially, and technically I don't care if someone has a glass of wine/bottle of beer with me during a longer booking. I won't do it and I don't offer it.
I don't smoke, please don't smoke in my apartment. Like most non-smokers, I would politely ask that you bear it in mind when you are kissing me. It won't stop me kissing you, but there's ways of being considerate to get maximum pleasure out of a situation...
I don't allow drugs on my property. I don't care if that's what you choose to do in your own free time, but please don't bring it to my door.
What are your turn-offs?
Loutishness, cruelty, lack of empathy.
What are your hobbies and passions, things you love to do and discuss? Music genres, movies, reading preferences etc.? What other talents do you have?
I'm a software engineer to trade (yes, really), so I am a geek. When I'm not in stockings and suspenders, I'll be playing video games, or programming something.
Will you meet on a regular basis
Sure, in fact - I prefer it.
Tell me about your best or most memorable escorting experience ?
Honestly, I can't pick one. I've had lovely escorting stories; I've had funny ones. Through the years, I've met some genuinely sweet people, and now and again, some people who told me parts of their lives that genuinely made me sad for them.
You see aspects of people's lives you perhaps would never be privy to otherwise, and its hard not to remember them.
How long have you been escorting ?
Since 2009, give or take. I retired in 2012, returned briefly in 2013, then hung up my heels again. And now I'm here again.
How did you become an Escort ?
I wanted to see what it was like.
Have you worked in any other areas of the industry ?
No, I've always been an escort. I did do phone domination at one point - but I enjoy what I do.
What's the best thing about being an escort ?
Freedom, independence, the variety of people you meet.
What's the funniest thing that's happened to you while escorting ?
I was in a hotel room with a client who picked me up to throw me onto the bed in the height of passion; except I landed awkwardly, bounced back off the bed and slammed straight into the wall, lying on the floor on a heap.
To give him credit, he did panic and come running over to check if I was okay - I had seen the funny side and was curled up laughing, but still...
What advice would you give someone wanting to become an escort ?
It is a psychologically demanding job - you will deal with timewasters, people will tear apart your looks, you will deal with people who occasionally make you feel uncomfortable. There is a stigma to it, and mentally you have to prepare yourself for that. It is not like it is on TV.
On the flipside, you can meet some truly wonderful people, and be afforded amazing opportunities. But think long and hard about it, it isn't for everyone.
What's the thing that clients do that annoys you the most ?
Mmm, perhaps need to be prompted to pay.
What's the nicest thing a client has ever done for you ?
I have had so many nice things done for me throughout the years; I wouldn't feel comfortable disclosing all of it. Clients can be incredibly kind and decent.
Do you enjoy being an escort ?
Well, this isn't my first time at the rodeo, so I'd say that yes - I do enjoy my job.
What do look for in a prospective client ?
Respect, kindness, friendliness, cleanliness - a sense of humour.
Do you accept gifts from clients? What sort of gifts do you like ?
You really don't have to, but I've always found it genuinely so kind when clients have done this for me. I squeal and everything, its probably a bit disconcerting. I like perfume, and Mac make up.
Please don't bring flowers though - I love them, but my neighbours think there's been a death in the family.
If a client takes you out for dinner, what would be your favourite restaurant or favourite type of food ?
Italian. This isn't a debate.
What excites you about where you live?
It is a stunning part of the world, no matter how many times you see it.
What do you find irratating in a new client ?
...nothing really, I take people as I find them. I generally just want to have a laugh as well with clients so that goes a long way.
Can I book a massage and dinner date together
Sure, why not? Dessert is always hit and miss, so find something you really fancy...
What is the most sensitive part of your body?
What sort of men turn you on?
I like warm, funny, pleasant men who respect women and really do just want to show up somewhere to have a good time. My attitude is you just want to have a fun hour with a woman you think is hot, you don't want stress, you don't want to cause bother, you just want to roll around in bed and feel good. I like guys who can have that mentality and still respect women completely.
How do you rate yourself compared to other escorts??
I don't compare myself to other escorts, they offer their own services with their own personalities and I offer mine. Ultimately we are all in the same industry and I take the stance that we should be supporting each other rather than comparing.
I am quite quirky, though.
What's the best time to book you?
First thing in the am - I like to be able to arrange my schedule. I have a limited amount of availability and only tend to see 2, perhaps 3 clients per day maximum, so knowing what I'm doing early on makes life easy.
What is your favourite place?
Warm, sunny places where I can either explore history or fall asleep on a sun lounger with a book.
Do you offer Bareback?