Punterlink's Guide to Sexual Terminology |
A guide to some of the terms and phrases used in the escorting industry.
Sexual Terms (T-Z) |
Meanings |
Testicles |
The male reproductive glands |
TG |
Transgender |
Third sex |
Homosexuals |
TLC |
Tender loving care |
Tomboy |
A girl who prefers the activities, privileges and dress of boys, and avoids female restrictions; sometimes used to describe adult women. |
Tongue |
(verb) To perform oral intercourse |
Toolbox |
The male genitals |
Torture |
Painful actions used to enhance sexual pleasure. |
Trade |
A passive male prostitute for homosexuals |
Training |
Discipline used by the Dom to control the sub's behaviour, condition and/or attitude. Pony training, anal training, position training, voice command response, etc. can be used for training. |
Transgender |
An umbrella term for those who blur the lines of traditional gender expression. |
Transgendered (TG) |
One who switches gender roles, whether just once, or many times at will. Inclusive term for transsexuals and transvestites |
Transvestite |
A person who dresses in the clothes and assumes the gender expression of the opposite sex. |
TS, Transsexual |
A person that mismatches his/her personal psychology. They go for counselling, hormone treatments and surgery. Before surgery a transsexual is referred as a "pre-op" TS and after surgery is a "post-op" TS. |
Transvestite (TV) |
One who occasionally dresses in the clothing of the opposite sex for sexual or emotional pleasure, or both. Can be male or female, hetero- or homosexual, bi- or solo sexual, and may partially or wholly cross-dress. Some have felt the word is a negative medical term; cross dresser and cross-dressing are more commonly used today. Transvestism, tranny |
Triad |
The most basic and common form of multi-partner relationship, consisting of three adult primary partners, usually two of one sex and one of the other. threesome |
Uncovered |
Without a condom |
Unisex |
Not pertaining to one sex only. Unisex clothing can be worn by both traditional sexes. A unisex hair salon invites customers of both sexes. Unisexual |
Urethra |
Duct which carries urine and semen |
Urolagnia |
Sexual pleasure from watching another drink urine |
Vacuum cleaner |
One who applies great suction during oral sex |
Vagina |
Orifice of female sex organs |
Vanilla sex |
Any non kinky sex acts |
Versatile |
Bi-sexual |
VFM |
Value for money |
Vinyl |
Material used for fetish fashions |
Virility |
The sexual power and capacity of a male |
Voyeur |
One who gains sexual satisfaction from watching others undressing or engage in sexual acts |
Walk-up |
This is a type of establishment that is common in Soho (including Chinatown), A walk-up has an open door leading into a flat (or two or three) in each of which a prostitute works. They advertise mainly by means of a note by the entrance saying "model" and usually giving some details. |
Watersports |
Urination in a sexual context. Usually means that the prostitute pisses over the client, or at least for the client to watch. |
WG |
Working girl, same as prostitute/escort |
Wham bam |
Rapid and hurried sexual activity |
Wiener |
The penis |
With |
Often means "with a condom" |
Without |
Often means "without a condom" |
Whip |
Object that can be also a cane, crop, paddle or slapper, or a single or multiple-lash whips to beat a submissive. |
Working girl |
Euphemism for a prostitute |
Work up |
To create passion or to be passionate |
Worship |
To lavish attention to a body part (Ex: feet.) Also, a role playing attitude toward a dominant. |
W/S |
Watersports |
X-frame |
A bondage frame in the shape of an "X" in a horizontal position |