Punterlink's Guide to Sexual Terminology

A guide to some of the terms and phrases used in the escorting industry.

Sexual Terms
69 Simultaneous fellatio and cunnilingus
A Anal sex
A-Levels Anal sex
Abstinence Refraining from all sexual activity
Abstinence Only Curricula Sexuality education programs that advocate sexual abstinence before marriage. They do not provide information about contraception, safer sex, or sexual orientation
AC/DC Bisexual.
Active The aggressive sexual partner
Agate A small penis
Age of Consent The age at which one is considered old enough to decide to have sexual intercourse
Age of Majority The age at which one becomes a legal adult
Age play Role playing involving pretending to be a child and often wearing children's clothing. Adult babies
AIDS (Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome) A set of conditions associated with the last stages of HIV disease
Algolagnia Another word for sadomasochism (SM) Algolagnia is when pain is transformed into sexual pleasure
Alternative sexuality A sexual orientation with a few variations that differ from vaginal intercourse when a monogamous heterosexual relationship has been established
Alternative lifestyle Sexual preference that is very different from the "norm," making it necessary and/or desirable. If the alternative sexuality is less common than the norm it will push the individual to reach an accepted subculture
Alveoli Sacs inside the breast that produce milk
Androgens Certain hormones that stimulate male sexual development and secondary male sex characteristics. They are most abundantly produced in the testicles of men but are also produced in small amounts in women's ovaries. The most common androgen is testosterone
Androgynous / Androgyny One who is / the quality of simultaneously exhibiting "masculine" and "feminine" characteristics. Androgyny: A person psychologically ntermediate between male and female; or a person who rejects a specifically male or female gender role
Animal play When one or both partners pretend to be an animal (Ex: dog, horse) in a role play
Anal/Anal intercourse Using the rectum for Sexual Intercourse
Anilingus Kissing and penetration of the anus by tongue
Anorgasmia The inability to have an orgasm.
Anus The opening of the rectum
Aphrodisiac A substance that is supposed to increase sexual desire
Areola The dark area surrounding the nipples of women and men
Around the world Kissing the entire body before sex
Asexual Absence of sexual feeling
Auto-eroticism Masturbation
Auto-fellatio Performing fellation on ones own penis
Auto-sadism An act whereby one inflicts pain on oneself
AW0 Anal without a condom
Back scuttle Perform anal intercourse
Bag The scrotum
Back yard The buttocks
Balanitis An inflammation of the glands and foreskin of the penis that can be caused by infections (including sexually transmitted infections) irritations, drugs, or other factors.
Ball A wild sex activity
Balls The testicles
Banana The penis
Bare-assed Nude
Bareback Sex Without a condom
Barrier Methods of Birth Control Contraceptives that block sperm from entering the uterus. These are the condom, vaginal pouch, diaphragm, cervical cap, and spermicide.
Bartholin's Glands Glands in the labia menorah on each side of the opening to the vagina that provide lubrication during sexual excitement.
Basket The bulge of male sex organ in clothing
Basket shopping Observing the male organ through clothing
Berdache French term for younger partners in male homosexual relationships
Chastity Belt Garment meant to ensure fidelity in women in the absence of their husbands. Others were designed to prevent masturbation and nocturnal emissions in men and boys.
Cheat To be unfaithful to one's sex partner
Chemical Castration The use of Depo-Provera to decrease sexual desire and arousal.
Cherry One who is still a virgin
CIM Come in mouth
Circumcision Surgical removal of the foreskin
Chlamydia A common sexually transmitted organism that can cause sterility in women and men.
Clap Gonorrhoea or other venereal disease (std)
Climacteric The time of change that leads to menopause. The physiological midlife changes for women and men
Climax To achieve the high point of sex activity
Clit The clitoris
Clitoral Hood A small flap of skin that covers and protects the clitoris.
Clitoris A small erectile organ located in the forward area of the wife's vulva. Stimulation of the clitoris during foreplay and sexual intercourse can enhance the wife chances of an orgasm
Closet The confining state of being secretive about one's homosexuality
Closet queen A male homosexual who hides his desires for men
Closeted Hiding one's sexuality or gender predilection from others or the public. Closet case.
Code word(s) Word or words that are used in personal ads to unnotice sexual proclivities mostly unacceptable in society. Ex: French or Greek culture, clean, discipline, strict, leather, etc.
COF Cum On Face.
Cohabitation Living together in a sexual relationship.
Coitus Sexual intercourse
Coitus in ano Anal intercourse
Coitus interruptus Withdrawal of the penis prior to ejaculation
Cold Unresponsive to sexual relations
Colposcope A viewing instrument with a bright light and magnifying lens that is used to examine the vagina and cervix.
Come out To acknowledge one's homosexuality, either to oneself or to others; most often a public declaration of being lesbian or gay.
Completion Orgasm. For example, OWO to completion means until you cum
Comparison Warm happy feelings experienced when noticing ones loved ones enjoying loving relationships with others. The opposite of jealousy
Conception The moment when the pre-embryo attaches to the lining of the uterus and pregnancy begins; term also used to describe the fertilization of the egg with a man’s sperm
Condom A sheath of thin rubber, plastic, or animal tissue that is worn on the penis during sexual intercourse. It is an over-the-counter, reversible barrier method of birth control, and it also provides protection against the most serious sexually transmitted infections.
Consensual An agreement made by parties for certain type of behaviour or activities. When the consent is informed and there is a reasonable knowledge of possible risks is called true consent.
Continence To refrain from sexual activity
Contraceptive The prevention of pregnancy; birth control.
Corpus Cavernosa Two strips of tissue that lie on each side of the urethra in the penis. During sexual excitement, they fill with blood to create an erection.
Corpus Spongiosum The tissue that surrounds the urethra inside the penis and is responsible, like the corpus cavernosa, for an erection; also the type of tissue that forms the glands of the clitoris and the penis.
Corona Rim of flesh which forms the base of the head of penis
Cowgirl A position for sexual intercourse - the man on his back, the woman sitting on top.
Cowper's Glands The glands beneath the prostate gland that are attached to the urethra. They produce a substance that makes seminal fluid sticky.
Covered With a condom
CP Corporal punishment. You used to be able to get this in return for stealing things, but it doesn't work that way any more
Crabs Lice which infect the pubic area of the body
Cremaster Reflex An automatic response to stimulation (for example, cold temperature or touching the inside f the thigh) in which the cremaster muscle pulls the scrotum and testes closer to the body
Creampie Ejaculation in the vagina (or anus) without a condom
Cross dresser A person who occasionally dresses in the clothing of the opposite sex for sexual or emotional pleasure, or both. The most commonly-used term, having replaced transvestite. May be male or female, hetero- or homosexual, bi- or solo sexual, and may partially or wholly cross-dress
Cross-dressing The practice of dressing in clothes traditionally assigned to the opposite gender; also called transvestitism or drag
Cryptorchidism The condition in which one or both of the testicles do not descend from the lower abdomen before puberty
Cum Semen
Cum facial Same as facial
Cunnilingus Stimulation of the woman’s genital area, especially the clitoris, with the partner's lips and tongue
CWM CyberWhoreMonger. A punter who uses the Internet in connection with his paid-sex activities. This is mainly an American term, and contrasts with CyberCourtesan
Date Rape Coerced sexual intercourse during a dating relationship
Delayed Ejaculation Commonly used term for inhibited orgasm in men
Depo-Provera® A progestin that is injected into the buttock or arm every 12 weeks to prevent pregnancy. It is a reversible method of birth control available only by prescription
Diaphragm A soft rubber dome intended to fit securely over the cervix. Used with contraceptive cream or jelly, the diaphragm is a reversible barrier method of birth control available only by prescription
Dirt Sex slave members who's checks bounce
Discipline The other part of Bondage (B&D) that could also mean punishment or a structured training of a submissive.
Doggie style A position for sexual intercourse - the woman on her knees, the man entering from behind
Dominance dominance and submission, D/S, D&S Used for erotic enhancement, one partner uses consensual empowerment for the other partner. In SM, dominance and submission are the psychological and emotional underpinnings.
Dominant, Dom, Domme, Domina, Dominatrix The person that in a consensual exchange of power is in charge. If the person is a male is called dominant or Dom; if is a female is called a Domme, Domina or Dominatrix
Don Juanism The desire by a man to have sex very frequently with many different partners.
Dose Gonorrhoea or other venereal disease (std)
Douche A spray of water or solution of medication into the vagina.
DP Double penetration, one penis in the vagina, another in the anus
Drag queen Male who dresses in female clothing
Dry fuck Moving against one another, clothed to simulate intercourse
Dyad A sexual love relationship consisting of two primary partners
Dyke A lesbian
Dyspareunia Painful intercourse for women that may be caused by hormonal imbalances, especially those that happen after menopause.
Early Ejaculation Ejaculation occurring before a man wants it to occur.
Eat To perform oral intercourse
Ectopic Pregnancy A life-threatening pregnancy that develops outside the uterus, often in a fallopian tube.
Effeminate Descriptive of a male who acts in a feminine manner
Egg The reproductive cell in women; the largest cell in the human body.
Ejaculation Discharge from the penis during sexual climax
Ejaculatory Inevitability The moment during sexual excitement when a man cannot stop his ejaculation. The prostate begins contracting and pulsing out seminal fluid.
Emergency Contraception The use of oral contraceptives or IUDs to prevent pregnancy after unprotected intercourse
Emergency Hormonal Contraception The use of oral contraceptives to prevent pregnancy after unprotected intercourse.
Enema An instrument or injecting fluid into the anus to flush the lower intestines. In SM scenes enemas are used for humiliation, for preparation for other activities (fisting or anal sex) and/or for pleasure.
Epididymis The tube in which sperm mature. It is tightly coiled on top of and behind each testis. The plural of Epididymis is epididymides.
Epididymitis An inflammation of the Epididymis
Erectile Dysfunction The inability to become erect or maintain an erection with a partner.
Erection The sexual aroused state cause by a rush of blood into the veins and capillaries of the penis, coupled with a valve action which prevents its release, and further aided by the contraction of certain surface muscles on the penis, all of which combine to keep it in a hard and extended configuration until the stimuli is taken away or ejaculation occurs
Erogenous Zone Any area of the body very sensitive to sensual touch.
Erotic That which is sexually arousing.
Erotica Sexually arousing imagery that is not considered pornographic, obscene, or offensive to the average person.
Erotophilia Appreciation of the erotic
Erotophobia Fear and anxiety about the erotic.
Erotic restraint When movement is restricted for erotic play. It is also referred to the devices used
Escort A person who sells companionship and may offer Sex
Estrogen A hormone commonly made in a woman's ovaries. Estrogens major effects are seen during puberty, menstruation, and pregnancy
Eunuch A male who has had his testicles removed
Exhibitionism A paraphilia in which sexual arousal becomes dependent on exposing the sex organs to those who will be surprised.
Exhibitionist A person who derives sexual gratification by displaying his body to others
Facial This is where you spunk over her face
Faeces Solid waste that leaves the body through the anus.
Fake Orgasm The pretence of having reached climax in order to end sex play or please a partner.
Family jewels The testicles
Fanny Same as pussy, cunny, quim, etc. (This definition is provided for the benefit of Americans, who generally have a very strange idea of what a fanny is.)
Fellatio To kiss, nibble, lick or cock-sucking
Female Circumcision The practice of removing a girl's clitoral hood, clitoris, and/or the labia; often called female genital mutilation. This is practiced in some African, Near Eastern, and Southeast Asian cultures.
Female Impersonator (FI) A male who, on specific occasions, cross dresses and employs stereotypical feminine dialog, voice, and mannerisms for the entertainment of other people.
Feminine The "gender role" assigned to "females".
Fetish Excessive or irrational devotion to some activity, a sexual interest in an object or a part of the body which someone is interested in to an extreme degree of worship with excessive devotion
Fetishistic Transvestite A Transvestite who consistently eroticizes Cross Dressing. May also eroticize fantasies of gender/sex change.
Fifth wheel A heterosexual in a homosexual group
Fisting The art of inserting the whole hand inside the vagina or anus
Flagellation Whipping or beating to sexual orgasm
Foot fetish/ Foot worship Sexual obsession toward feet or shoes
F->M Female to male. Used to specify the direction of a sex or gender role change.
Foreplay Physical and sexual stimulation (kissing, touching, stroking, and massaging) that often happens in the excitement stage of sexual response; often occurs before intercourse, but can lead to orgasm without intercourse.
Foreskin A retractable tube of skin that covers and protects the glands of the penis.
FOC Free of harge
FR Field report, a written report of an experience with a prostitute by a client
French French sex. Another term for fellatio. TO PERFORM ORAL INTERCOURSE
French kissing Deep kissing, tongue kissing.
FS Sometimes means full sex, but sometimes means full service
FTM female to male, as in cross-dressing or a transsexual
Full house Having more than one venereal disease (std) at the same time
Full service Bit vague, but generally means full sex and fellatio
Full sex Vaginal intercourse
Full strip Should mean that she takes all her clothes off - but beware that she may have a different idea of the meaning.
FWO French without [a condom]. Same as OWO or BBBJ.
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